There are times in our lives when your spouse will get called to do something within the ministry or the kingdom of God. Sometimes that calling will take you outside of your own comfort zone. It can be something as simple as having people over for dinner, or going to a new church. It may be something big like your husband being called into a roll that will put you a lot more front and center.
Regardless of our own comfort zone, we have to trust that God will provide the steps and the path for not only our spouse but also for us. If we end up unintentionally in a more direct leadership role because of our spouse then we should take comfort in realizing that God knew exactly what he was doing. He knew when he called our spouse what it would also do to us as the partner. He will provide us the ability to handle whatever is needed for us to support our husband or wife. He will bless us for being encouraging and supportive.